People you avoid?

-people who are funny? -people who are mean, but think they are funny? -people who try to be cute? -people who try to be a smart ass, but think it’s being cute too? -people who are asking for help sympathy or understanding? -people who are upset all the time, flying off handle in a rage, […]

Baby Got a Suspcious Mind

Is it maddening or lifesaving if Baby’s got a suspicious mind? Strong Feelings of Resentment These feelings would common sensibly come from… 1. Daily onslaught of abuse? That bad feelings remain if unchecked ? uncorrected? 2.  Misplaced blame? (happenstance- opportunity) 3. Upbringing — (as men or boys are?) to not respect women? — to not appropriately blame […]

Key to longevity is key to acceptance? TRY, TRY HARD

A major key to acceptance is to not give up TRYING.  I don’t mean ‘do not give up trying to be mean’, I mean ‘do not give up trying to be nice’, negotiate, do not give up wanting to be accepted for the right reasons, by the right people. So to say ‘do not give […]