Self talk victims do

Sometimes, someone who has been victimized may seem as if they are talking to themselves. Another attempt of sociopath trying to discredit victim, most likely. Why does one leave little clues to how violates?  to make the victim talk to theirself, like WHY ME? WHAT CHOICE DO I HAVE?

After thoughts….
·        What just happened?
·        Things like how could they?
·        What should I do about it?   Act like it is perfectly okay and not let anyone know what happened or draw attention to self?
·        May try to recount in their mind or make sense of what just happened or what keeps happening….
·        Trying not to seem irrational, desperate, or reaching for straws, they may seem to be very sarcastic and feel regret for some position they found their selves in.  They may seem to be bitchy too.
·         Like ‘oh no, he didn’t just do that, did he’ like stare innocently as if he didn’t do anything wrong, when any other time, he would say something like ‘I wish I could shoot you and get away with it’.
·         Or ‘now I see it for what it is’…
o        Like next door neighbor, is a car and parts thief, road rager, pothead, smoker, bastard, trespasser, vandalizer, underhanded warring faction, using family as pawns, etc.
o        Where every fricking thing would require proof to press charges?
·         Like, you try to clarify in your mind what you are so mad about.
·         A child who feels powerless, such that has been molested, or an adult who cannot find enough support, may talk to their self.
·        They may not have any other defense, feel powerless, or don’t want to break the law, when only bad choices come to mind, so they think of what other choices they have.
·         Or the other person will not hear them out, and walks out, before they finish what they were trying to say, or there is a lack of communication, where one person is being heard, and not the other, like one sided, and the person who is talking to themselves is getting treated wrongly without a fair trial?
·        They may think they are being hypnotized, under mind control, or could be, like not quite self, but feeling way out of it.  It is not that they are hearing voices, but they are not letting the bad person, what one thinks is trying to get you to do, take control.
·        For instance when you realize what they did, you think the attacker wants you to retaliate,  try to one up them, in a bad way, or at least doesn’t seem to care, if you do, and do something worse to them, than what they did to you, and you, through self  talk, can say ‘maybe YOU are going to prison, but I am not going to go with you.’, like you can say ‘I don’t get even, you can just die in your misery. I refuse to stoop to your level and be a low life. Yes, I may talk to myself, but at least I am not a car thief, molester, etc., with no respect for single women, children, or any women, for that matter.
·         In any situations, like bullying, any claims hard to prove, harassment, if even report, who would understand and not be a devils advocate, and believe you? You don’t see a bully talking to their self, cause they are laughing with their bully followers, they bullied into following them, and planning their next move how to bully even more into submission, like gangs do. In the case of chronic victimization, harassment, or abuse, when they won’t quit being bad, and noone is backing you, it can be frustrating, and you may such as scream at them from far away, knowing it would not do any good anyway, then they cannot get close to you and get violent, and they can feel the irritation that they have made you feel, instead of hold it in.
A victim, recent or even one time, is supposed to live on the hope that one day the person will be locked up?  Isn’t there a more agreeable solution?  Self defense or retaliation is questionable or unsafe, if without absolute proof, when truth is not even absolute.

THE SYSTEM DOES NOT WORK FOR THE VICIM, SO PEOPLE KEEP ON VICTIMIZING, UNTIL THEY VICTIMIZE THE WRONG ONE, ONE DAY. THEY WASTE THEIR TIME, TO WASTE YOURS OR SET YOU BACK, BUT ONE DAY SOMEONE IS GOING TO READY FOR THEM, AND TAKE THEM DOWN. YES THEY MAY SEE
HOW OTHERS ARE BEING TAKEN DOWN, AND SIDE STEP THE LAW, BUT ONE DAY THE LAW IS GOING TO SIDE STEP THEM.

Yet if you have a job, you have more entitlement to run over who ever you want on the way.  If more people who bully, felt a lot less entitlement to be cruel, and did talk to their selves, there may be less bad choices made by them. Sometimes the only way to make someone feel less entitlement to be cruel is to lock them up.

Who is going to take the time to enforce, investigate, follow around, etc. like for instance…. you think a child has been molested, but no one comes around to ask you if you have seen anything suspicious, meaning no one else is concerned about the behavior of the child, when clearly the child is saying things that suggests has been exposed to carnal knowledge.  (You might see the law enforcers doing it on TV, thinking that is a typical of someone’s job, but you never see anyone really doing it.

If small time criminals always get away with stuff, and the innocent’s truth is made to look like a lie, where is the justice in that?  Is there justice where small time criminals are getting richer and the legal are getting poorer? Do you just have all the time in the world living on the defensive of these types of people?  Why is it that the victim is supposed to seem crazy, as if you could not be one yourself?????  Until the system corrects itself or comes into its own being as ‘no way for the bullying criminal type to compromise it?’ as if that will ever happen…. The bullies may fool you in the beginning, because they are sneaky, lying, and underhanded, until they are more confident, and feel no threat, if how they are is made public?

A real mental health expert may know these things, about self talk, and recommend it, but the law may see it as suspicious behavior, as well as being a loner, so how can you tell the public?  Like a horoscope, you cannot group people into one category, or predict what someone will do in a certain category; you alone are responsible for accepting them in that category as.  If a ‘victim’ is alone, and vulnerable, only to the eyes of a criminal and the law (as a loner), but everyone is alone in their own right, and resp. for their own actions, so what right does someone have to make them out to be a continual victim like as aself talker? When you think the law understands victims, think again.

Yes everyone may want to hear about what happened, but may also be powerless to do anything, but the bad guys should watch their back when they aren’t powerless, like an uprising, or maybe they won’t grow up after all, is what the bad guy’s game plan is, so what they shoot your computer?

So once again, the stalking pervert, or whoever, sat in my car with window rolled down, and put water in gas tank, or bad cheap gas, when used my car, so it would be almost undriveable to go somewhere on valentines day.  Once again, no way to prove it, but it cost me extra money and time to fix the problem. And reinforce that I once again will remain single and whoever’s victim, and society will reinforce their behavior, by not protecting me, or at least proving ME wrong by checking out my complaints. 
Do they bully all people who raise animals besides dogs?
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